The overarching goal of group therapy is to fully explore
yourself in relationships. Many people use group therapy to understand
the ways in which they may struggle to establish satisfying connections
with others. Common themes which individuals who join groups share
include loneliness, difficulty expressing both negative and positive
emotions and worries about acceptance and rejection by others.
The approach that our
groups take is to focus on what is referred to as "the here and now." In
other words, significant attention in the group is directed toward
understanding the thoughts and feelings
of group members as the group proceeds. Group therapy in essence
provides one with an opportunity to slow down the interactions one
has with others so that one might learn to respond more effectively.
Some people liken group therapy to a laboratory where one can both
analyze one's behavior as well as try out new ways of being with
others.
People who have experienced group therapy often cite that it was
helpful for them as a way of learning about parts of themselves which
had previously been outside of their awareness. In both giving and
receiving feedback there is a great deal of learning about both how
one impacts others and how one is impacted by others. In order for
the group work to occur there needs to be safety and trust within
the group. The group leaders work to foster a safe atmosphere as
well as help members to understand how they can develop trust with
others.
In
short, group therapy is an extremely valuable method of deepening
one's knowledge about one's self and learning how to develop more
meaningful relationships. It is important to note that the learning
that occurs in group is a gradual process and so too is the relief
from stress, which may be the consequence of unsatisfying relationships.
Thus, to be effective, group therapy requires commitment from participants
to attend consistently over time.
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